Well,
the question I am pondering upon,
what builds a relationship?
Pick one:
LOVE or TRUST?
For some of us,
we want a serious relationship but unluckily we get ourselves into the wrong one,
plenty of us, especially girls,
can't really pull ourselves out when we realize he is not a trustworthy man.
We would rather choose to 'believe' (just because love conquers all) while in fact,
deep inside us lies millions of doubts,
yet we are still stuck with the wrong person.
Then every time they do something,
we start questioning this and that,
at the end your so-called 'the man that I LOVE' gets fed up explaining.
Or another case like,
the man re-do it again? familiar huh? haha.
Now I want you to imagine the heart break. =)
>>>Here comes a b/r/o/k/e/n relationship
Out of love we choose to trust someone,
but what if the trust is actually not there though our mouth say so?
Since young,
Sis and I has been the witness of my parents' relationship,
been through with them the journey the lost trust on each other,
I am upset to see how mom doubts on dad,
vice versa , until now...
yet,
its surprising to see they are still sticking to each other until today!
Because of love? Love without trust?
I guess its because they are used to living with each other,
part of life I think so.
For me,
Love is a spiritual fulfillment which can make you shine inside-out.
Forcing yourself to stuck with a person you really love but you know you can't trust,
is just like drinking coffee without Caffein.
So love or trust?
I choose trust.
Or even maybe,
at the end of the day,
we give up searching for love but someone we can live with,
someone we can marry to,
just to follow the norm.
** I have no idea or comment on this.
And I found it in someone's blog!
Personally feel that is quite interesting.
To someone perhaps ??
Just to share it! Take it or leave it.
no offence :)